Friends and Enemies
The adult friend finder on my dating site sexsearch is working overtime. It doesn’t exactly find me enemies per say, but there have been those times that even with all my criteria in its brain and I am sure the same amount of stuff it gets from another guy, the adult friend finder has made me a match of some hunk I don’t find so hunky. Occasionally, as any good dating search engine will, and sexsearch’s AFF is about the best in the business, it hits wide its mark.
But then the fun is making an enemy into a friend.
Again, these gay guys I find are not enemies at all, they are just not my type. But I have found more often then not if I start chatting with a guy, even if we come to find we have nothing in common initially, we tend to keep chatting. Sexsearch is set-up for chatting as much as anything else, so what’s the harm? And there have also been those occasions where I’ve met some guy on sexsearch and we plan a meet off line, even though we aren’t even getting along all that much, and right up until the time we lay eyes on each other in person we think the meet is kind of a stupid idea.
And there have been those times with those guys that yes, we have had sex!
In the end, what I have learned most for an adult friend finder is you can’t ever know who might actually turn out to be a friend, even if you don’t seek that person out in the first place, nor can you know exactly what’s going to happen to you if you meet someone off line.
It’s no longer a question of a gay man can’t be choosy because his chances for dating are so small it just seems to me that people are generally more open on a site like sexsearch where they know everyone is on to have a good time.