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Recently Active and Looking For Sex


I like that Sex Search tells you the last time a member has been active on their account. Not every adult personals sites bothers to do this. Why is it important? Because you want to know if you’re wasting your time or not.

Imagine this: you see a honey blonde with legs out the wazoo and you start checking out her profile. She likes “Alternate Activities,” is looking to have threesomes and is a Gemini (the best sex sign ever.) You message her. You have high hopes. She doesn’t message back. You message once more, just in case. She doesn’t message back. You get depressed. But what if she no longer uses the site because she just go engaged? Or what if she’s on an extended trip in Europe and doesn’t have time for a free sex search? Well, why didn’t anyone tell you? You’ve just wasted your time.

Sexsearch will tell you, because they’re all about courtesy. If you see a member has been active recently, go for it, but if it’s been a while, I wouldn’t waste your time. You can always check back later to see if they’re around again. Surprisingly, almost every single woman on Sexsearch has been active in the past 24 hours. I never really encounter profiles where a user hasn’t been quite recently active. That’s because everyone wants to fuck. That’s because Sexsearch rocks. That’s because it’s Tuesday and I’m as horny as if it were Friday.

Peace out.

7 Responses to “Recently Active and Looking For Sex”

  1. Frank says:

    I’ve never even noticed the recently active tool because I’ve never had a problem with not being messaged back. Only losers don’t get messaged back. I have a huge cock and the ladies can tell so they never say no to me. Too bad you have this problem, dude – so sad.

  2. Burt says:

    Frank: you are a douche bag. Congratulations. Also: I don’t believe you. There is no way every single woman on Sexsearch has responded to you. No way. You seem to be overcompensating for something. Anyways – I agree with this post – recently active is totally useful. You don’t’ want to was your time.

  3. Stanley says:

    You don’t want to waste your time because there are too, too many hot women to waster your time on just one. If she hasn’t been active in the past 24 like Jack Bauer, then forget about her. There are thousands of other sweeties out there just dying to come over. Don’t get hooked on one. Waste. Of. Time.

  4. Lou says:

    Thanks for writing this! I never even noticed the recently active tool! I have been kind of hung up on this one woman in the past three days or so, and she hasn’t been messaging me back. After reading this, I went to check if she’s been active recently, and she hasn’t! That explains everything! Now I can move on.

  5. Toman says:

    Stalker much? If a girl doesn’t message you back. Leave her the fuck alone. Morons.

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